Before I Go to Kindergarten #16: Pretend Play Helps Learning

According to Einstein, “Imagination is more powerful than knowledge.” Therefore, a powerful activity for preparing kids for school is pretend play.

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We can’t see from the outside but as kids engage in pretend play their brains are seriously working. Brains are connecting different bits of information kids already know to actions and emotions. For example, kids may have some clues about being “the boss”, but they are trying on how that feels too. Kids are solving problems, making choices, predicting, using language, comparing, talking, linking cause and effect, and figuring out people and situations around them. No wonder Einstein says imagination is so powerful. It goes beyond just knowing.imagination art

 

About 2 years old, kids start engaging in pretend play. At home and play centers there are many ways to encourage imaginative play. An empty box isn’t really empty; it’s full and overflowing with possibilities. It can become anything and take kids anywhere. Old clothes are fun for dressing up. Check the recycling basket for small containers and other treasures. Drape a sheet over a table or the sofa for a blanket fort. There are many different toys kids like for pretend play, but they will often imagine and create with anything. Or even with nothing at all!

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For relationships, we often need to imagine how others feel. Imaginative play opportunities help develop this skill. As kids play pretend, they can deal with stress and fears.

Play not only gives a glimpse of what’s happening thinking-wise but also feeling-wise. If you wonder how your child is feeling about going to school, a new daycare, a move to a different house, a soon-to-arrive baby brother or sister, a visit to the doctor or dentist, or some other event, you may be able to suggest playing out that situation. During the play you get a chance to see and hear your child’s perspective.

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About the age of 2, kids start pretending, but that’s not where it ends. These skills get better as kids get opportunities to grow and stretch them. In the workplace, these imaginative and creative abilities are in high demand. For a play-of-the-day, can you facilitate some pretend play for your child?

P.S. You don’t need to imagine what’s on the rest of the developmental checklist–check the Before Kindergarten infographic. You can also see the following and previous posts.

Before I Go to Kindergarten #15: Play with School Tools

Every profession or trade has tools. For kids, those are crayons, paint, glue, scissors, etc. Kids need to play with school tools before kindergarten. Play is the work of the child.

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This earlier post has a description of some tools and how to use them:


fun with school toolsOnce you have crayon-proofed, perhaps that should be kid and accident-proofed an area, let your child enjoy coloring with crayons, markers, and chalk. Big crayons are easier to hold than little ones.
painting activities with kidsBrushes and paints are also fun as are color dabbers and even q-tips. Food coloring diluted with water is another way to apply color to paper. Speaking of paper, old wrapping paper is blank on one side and even cereal or pizza boxes are good and sturdy for coloring or gluing.

Glue comes white, clear, colored, premixed with sparkles, and even glow-in-the-dark, everything it seems but easy-close. Glue sticks and liquid glue both seem to have challenges with lids. With kids, sometimes the challenge is not to have more glue on them than the project, but kids enjoy activities with glue.

fun with school toolsScissors are tricky to figure out. Did you know play dough is super easy to cut? For hands and brains that are learning to coordinate, play-dough is exceptional. Plus it can be put back together and used over and over. Not just cutting, but rolling, smoothing, patting, poking, and smooshing give small muscles lots of exercise.


These are only a few items for play with school tools. Kids won’t play with them in the same ways. Some kids may not be interested in playing with them much at all. This sort of play uses small muscles in the fingers, hands, and wrists. Large muscle activities like running, climbing, chasing, jumping, and swinging, have more appeal. Who wants to sit still when bodies want to move?

For kids who have higher mobility needs than others, we can adapt the tools. Fill a bucket with water and give kids a big wall paintbrush. Painting the fence with water is fun even if there’s nothing to see when the water dries. Check if any stores have wonderful refrigerator-size boxes. These are fun to color outside and inside. Kids can ‘write’ in the sandbox with cars and trucks.

As kids play with the tools of their work, they are developing and strengthening fine motor coordination. They are also practicing thinking skills, such as problem-solving, making choices, and following instructions. Often, there’s an element of imagination. When they show us what they have done and talk about it, they get to use language in specific ways. Feeling a sense of pride and accomplishment isn’t always easy for kids. Tools are useful for creating.

Sometimes, as parents and caregivers, we forget the value of toys and tools for play and learning. What are some other great tools or ways to  play with school tools you can suggest?

There are more items on the Before I Go to Kindergarten infographic. Check posts both before and after too for more ideas.

Before I Go to Kindergarten #14: Children’s Independent Play with Toys

Are you wondering how the item: children’s independent play with toys can be a ‘requirement’ for kindergarten? How kids play gives developmental clues. Play on the outside reflects what’s happening inside physically, mentally, and emotionally.

children's independent play with toys

Let’s watch kids playing with puzzles. When kids first start playing with puzzles, they need large pieces made of wood, foam, or thick cardboard. The spaces where the pieces fit are obvious and simple shapes. As kids get older and have opportunities to play with puzzles, the pieces can be more numerous, smaller, and trickier. We can see the learning that’s taken place from the play.

During puzzle play, we can see evidence of how kids solve problems. Some kids will try one piece over and over, all different ways. Others will match the picture and colors. Hopefully, kids will use a few different strategies. This shows flexible thinking. We can see how a child deals with frustration. Does the child give up on the puzzle or persevere? Kids will make choices about the play. Is finishing the puzzle an important goal or does the child make a different choice? Maybe, a child will ask for help. There is so much more than just eye-hand coordination to get pieces of a puzzle together.

before kindergarten puzzle play

Generally, at the pre-kindergarten stage, kids can do a puzzle of about 7 or more pieces. This varies depending on previous play with puzzles and other toys but even with only a few pieces we can see physical, mental, and emotional development.

Blocks are a common toy and most kids have had a chance to play with some kind of construction block. Building a tower to see how high it can be before it falls over is another play activity that reveals a great deal of information. For example, does a child try more than once to build a higher tower after the blocks have fallen down? Watching how a child makes adjustments again shows problem-solving skills.

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A child’s reaction when the tower falls is also important. Is the child easily frustrated or keeps trying? Of course, the noise and crash as the tower falls and rolls all over is pretty loud. For some this is exciting although other children may cover their ears. If more than one child plays with the blocks, we can also watch the interaction. A tower of 6 to 7 blocks is a guideline for this age.

Blocks and puzzles are only two common toys. Not only are there different toys, there are various levels of play. Just because kindergarten happens in school, doesn’t mean it’s only about academics. It’s also about how kids get along, how they interact with materials and information, and how they coordinate their own bodies. We don’t have to wait until kindergarten to gather clues about development. Children’s independent play with toys from just a few months old tells us so much about them and how they are learning. After all, isn’t play the brain’s favorite way to learn?

There are more items on the infographic Before I Go to Kindergarten. Check out the earlier and later posts too.

Before Kindergarten #13: Familiarity with Rhyming Words Letters Numbers

Time to Rhyme and Play Today? Strange as it sounds, familiarity with rhyming words gives lot of information about children’s development. It is an important brain milestone. One way to explain is to compare rhyming words to a car engine’s sound. A mechanic can tell if a car is running well by listening to the … Continue reading Before Kindergarten #13: Familiarity with Rhyming Words Letters Numbers

Before Kindergarten #12 Familiarity with Letters, Numbers, Rhyme Words

Are Letters a Familiar Friend for Your Child? Do kids need to know the alphabet before kindergarten? This is a common question and the answer is some basic familiarity with letters helps. In this video below, the parrot can say all the letters. Just because kids are able to say the names of the letters … Continue reading Before Kindergarten #12 Familiarity with Letters, Numbers, Rhyme Words

Before Kindergarten #11 Familiarity with Numbers, Letters, Rhyming Words

Are Numbers a Friend for Your Child? To Dr. Dan Gartell, readiness is a state of mind, not one of knowledge. Familiarity with , numbers, letters, and rhyming words helps kids’ peace of mind. Being in a new situation like daycare, playschool, preschool, or kindergarten is exciting but also scary for kids. Every bit of … Continue reading Before Kindergarten #11 Familiarity with Numbers, Letters, Rhyming Words

Before I Go to Kindergarten #10: Physical Development for Kids

Physical development for kids can vary greatly, especially during the preschool years of 0 to 5, but follows a similar pattern and sequence. The milestone, “I can hop on 1 foot, jump, and run, is quite general. It is only meant as a guideline not as something kids have to do by the end of … Continue reading Before I Go to Kindergarten #10: Physical Development for Kids

Before I Go to Kindergarten #9: Play and Group Skills for Kids

Before going to kindergarten, preschool, daycare, or any other play programs, some play and group skills for kids will make their life a lot more fun. We might think that kids come already knowing how to play. To some extent this is certainly true. Even animals like to play and have fun. There are wonderful … Continue reading Before I Go to Kindergarten #9: Play and Group Skills for Kids

Before I Go to Kindergarten #8: Feelings and Emotions for Kids

Feelings and emotions for kids is proving to impact their time and achievement at school more than we realized. Kids need our support and example early.  Long before kindergarten, at home, daycare, play programs, and preschool. The following is a post from an earlier series. There is a tendency to focus on academics and think … Continue reading Before I Go to Kindergarten #8: Feelings and Emotions for Kids

Before I Go to Kindergarten #7: Sharing and Taking Turns for Kids

Is your child going to kindergarten, playschool, daycare, or preschool? Sharing and taking turns for kids are two early and important social skills. We can support kids as they develop and practice these. The early years, that is before the age of 5, are the most sensitive time for learning social skills. We might think … Continue reading Before I Go to Kindergarten #7: Sharing and Taking Turns for Kids