Social and Emotional

Kindergarten Readiness – Child’s First Book

Yesterday, being at the start of Know..vember, kids started their very own getting to know book called All About Me. The first page was your child’s drawing of him or herself. Today’s page starts with a look in the mirror and you can combine this activity with getting ready to go somewhere. Have your child look in the mirror and notice the color of his/her hair. Does it look like your hair? Does anyone else in the family or the childcare center have hair like that? Talk about some words for hair and hairstyles: long, short, curly, frizzy, ponytails, spikes. There are words for the color of hair, too, like blond, dark, brown, black or red. Think of some animals that have hair. If you go out, notice that there’s lots of different ways and colors of hair.

Hair & Headdress

For this page, just print on a paper:   My hair is ___________. Your child can copy or print or you can print and, perhaps, help your little one trace the word. Read it together pointing at the words. Your child can draw a picture or you may want to take a photo or even tape in a lock of hair.

In case it’s a bad hair day, read the story of “Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day. (There were a couple short Youtubes of this book, too.) Helping children notice how we are alike and different at the same time is important for their social development. Noticing details about themselves and others helps their awareness and kindergarten readiness. Will this idea make your day less hairy?

Kindergarten Readiness – Know..vember

November is a No month, (no sun, no picnics, no camping…see yesterday’s blog). But it is a good time for a “know” month.  Getting to know you, that is. For the month of November, we’ll explore some activities that help kids to learn about themselves and others, too. Social skills and knowledge are more than an area of  kindergarten readiness. They are a significant part of every single day for all of us.

Some of the activities this month have a picture component and can be collected together to make your child’s very own All About Me book. To start, have your child draw a picture of him/herself. You can print: My name is _________ . Your child may be able to write on the line. If not, you can print your child’s name and your child may be able to trace over the letters using a marker. With your help to guide a hand, even 3-year-olds may be interested in how to write out their name. For littler tots, you might choose to take a photo and have your child make a few colored scribbles on the page. This helps build the connection between meaning and writing. When done, read the words together, pointing at them as you read. Let your child point, too, and ‘read’ them to you. This activity covers all sorts of learning. It helps your child feel important and special. Save the page and check back tomorrow for page 2. (Add a comment, so I can get to know you, too.)

Kindergarten Readiness – Fall Changes

With all the changes happening around us, it is a good time to talk to kids about just that–change. At this age, change often happens in kids’ lives and it can upset their world. Some practice dealing with small changes can help develop their understanding and resilience. Conversations can start…”Wow,  the leaves sure are changing. Take a look at the trees; they are changing, too. We can see the branches because the leaves are falling.” Checking out the seasonal changes helps children see change as a naturally occurring process and prepares them to deal with changes in their world. What fall changes are you seeing where you live?

Kindergarten Readiness – Talking to Kids about Dying

Some of my kindergarten students have grandparents in the area, some of them have grandparents who live far away. In the course of the school year, some of their grandparents pass away. Occasionally, some of the children have had a parent who has passed away so Mother’s Day and Father’s Day have to be handled … Continue reading Kindergarten Readiness – Talking to Kids about Dying

Kindergarten Readiness – Y = Yourself

Even though this is coming almost at the end of the readiness skills series starting with each letter of the alphabet, it is probably the basis for all the rest. Y = yourself, or the child’s sense of self and self-concept. Before children are about 3 years old, they see themselves in terms of labels and things they … Continue reading Kindergarten Readiness – Y = Yourself

Kindergarten Readiness – J=Jokes

Children’s sense of humor is expanding and developing  just like other skills and, yes, being able to understand a joke is a skill. Actually, it is a quite a complicated series of thinking skills–recognizing intention, realizing something is irregular and understanding symbolism–and corresponding emotional responses. As children grow and mature their joke telling becomes more reliable. Toddlers and preschoolers don’t … Continue reading Kindergarten Readiness – J=Jokes

Kindergarten Readiness – E=Empathy

Just heard a radio interview with Jeremy Rifkin, the author of The Empathic Civilization. In his book he states that we are hardwired for empathy and compassion. The topic of empathy is a good choice for E. Empathy is awareness of others and sensitivity to their feelings. Although young children do not have the same understanding as older … Continue reading Kindergarten Readiness – E=Empathy

Kindergarten Readiness – Pirates #12

What is a pirate’s favorite food? Fish and ships! To finish off this series of learning activities, pirates are going to look for treasure in the kitchen. Just in case they need some food for long trips here is a snack idea: a few chocolate ships, oops, chocolate chips, unsweetened cereal like cheerios, raisins, sunflower seeds, cranberries, … Continue reading Kindergarten Readiness – Pirates #12