Social and Emotional

Pirate Fun Activities For Kids #17: Jokes

pirate fun activities for kidsKnock, knock: Today’s kindergarten readiness fun and learning activity is brought to you by pirate jokes. There are many pirate kids’ jokes and a sense of humor is a skill that develops.

Knock, knock.
Who’s there?
Interrupting parrot.
Interru…
Squawkkkkkk!

Humor is much more than a reaction to a funny event, it is really a series of complex thinking processes. Children first need to notice what is happening and recognize that it is not usual or normal. In order to respond on an emotional level, kids have to figure out if this unusual situation is funny or not.  Then, children need to match their feelings to their behavior, either laughing or displaying another reaction. That’s several things that all need to be connected.

Knock, knock.
Who’s there?
Interrupting pirate.
Interru…
Arrrrr!

pirate activities for kidsHave you ever listened to kids telling jokes? They do not always get the right punch line, because they are still figuring out the connections and developing their sense of humor. To make it even more complicated, the intention underlying a joke is not stated, only hinted at. For instance, when a parent tells a child “I”m a fierce pirate and I’m going to chase you and get you to be my prisoner,” that is what we would consider a joke. A child needs to be aware that the words, no matter how fierce they sound, do not match the intention, which is to play a game. In order to have the appropriate emotional response, which would be squealing, laughing, and running away while trying to get caught at the same time for the tickle and hug, the child needs to understand the situation on several levels. To do this takes practice. Even adults sometimes make mistakes when it comes to humor and jokes.

Dig up a treasure of pirate jokes and share them with your child.
(And with me in the comments!) Knock, knock. Who’s there?

Go Fly A Kite for Summer Fun & Kindergarten Readiness

summer fun and learning activities for kindergarten readinessFlying a kite is an exciting activity that takes fun, learning, and kindergarten readiness to a new height. Every weekend in the summer, when there is enough wind in our area, there are kids and grownups out flying kites. Somehow, it never loses its magic, and the tug of the soaring kite is especially wonderful for a child.

When it comes to kindergarten readiness, most people usually think in terms of academics but the need to feel safe and secure is a priority for a child. Part of that feeling comes from trying new challenges and being successful. Flying a kite is not easy. There may not be enough wind, or it may be too strong. The string can get tangled, or the kite can get caught in a tree. But when the kite finally does get up and stays up there is a tremendous feeling of satisfaction and accomplishment. The whole body gets to enjoy the sensation because the eyes see the kite up high and the string tugs against the hands and arms.

Recently, when Big Sister who is almost five years old, was watching some grownups with kites, she saw some great big multicolored ones that twirled round and round. She also heard one that made a noise. This one in particular held her attention. Gathering her courage, she asked if she could tell the man that she liked his kite. This was certainly outside her comfort zone, talking to some one unfamiliar. Of course, her daddy went with her and she held his hand tightly as she told the man she liked the kite. Watching the kites flying may have helped her test her wings and now she has extended the space where she feels safe and secure.

Thankfully, there are some easy kites for kids to fly and a quick look online will bring up some ideas for inexpensive ones to make at home. Does this sound like an activity that can be both challenging and successful for your child?

Playground Fun, Learning, and Kindergarten Readiness #9

Playgrounds offer a fun space where children can stretch their own personal fears and overcoming fears is a part of kindergarten readiness and a life-skill. Some children are pretty much dare devils and it’s the parents and caregivers who are scared, but most children will have their own ideas about what is scary and what is okay.

playground learning activities for kindergarten readinessFears are unique to each child. In a group of children, some might be afraid to go down the pole but not to climb the rope ladder. Others may be the opposite, quite eager to zoom down the pole but do not like the rope ladder. Some children will go up and down the slide, but not up and down on the riding equipment. And with kids, something that is fine one day may be too scary the next.

It is quite a balancing act for adults to encourage children without being pushy and putting pressure on them. Children will usually want to do something more than they are currently doing, especially when they see other kids. Often, kids will ask for help, until they feel confident that they can do it on their own, such as catching them at the bottom of the slide, or standing close when they climb up the monkey bars.

Of course, safety is always a concern and requires that parents and caregivers are watchful but to support your child in trying to grow beyond fears and doubts, a visit to a playground may be helpful. Is your child working through some fear issues on the playground?

The Power of Stories with David Ward & Maurice Sendak

Not only are our brains prewired for stories, it seems as if our hearts are too. Yesterday’s post talked about the support for learning to read that reading books and sharing stories can give to child . But stories have a magic that can touch our hearts and tap into our emotions. A story can … Continue reading The Power of Stories with David Ward & Maurice Sendak

Playground Fun, Learning & Kindergarten Readiness #5

Celebrating Get Outdoors Day is as easy as going to the playground with your child for some fun, learning, and kindergarten readiness. Surprising as it sounds, children’s achievement in school is influenced by their social confidence. Because playgrounds often have quite a few children all playing and having fun, it’s a great place to support … Continue reading Playground Fun, Learning & Kindergarten Readiness #5

Playground Fun, Learning & Kindergarten Readiness #4

Although it seems like a contradiction, for kindergarten readiness and academic success children need to be able to regulate their behavior and have some basic early skills to make friends (Bodrova & Long, 2005). Research is showing that children who are more comfortable socially also have higher marks and those with poor social skills are … Continue reading Playground Fun, Learning & Kindergarten Readiness #4

Kids Need Face Time for Social & Emotional Development

Children need face time, for their social and emotional development and for kindergarten readiness. Last month, on Learn and Play with Mrs. A, I interviewed a military mom, Judy Davis, about young children in military families. One topic we discussed was some strategies to help children cope when one or both parents is away from … Continue reading Kids Need Face Time for Social & Emotional Development

Kindergarten Readiness – Conversations with Guest Experts #8

For each radio show on Learn and Play with Mrs A, I take notes because I’m learning so much about kids and kindergarten readiness from fascinating guests who are experts in a variety of areas. Each of them is passionate about kids and loves the work, or maybe that’s play? Here’s a play-of-the-day suggested from … Continue reading Kindergarten Readiness – Conversations with Guest Experts #8

Kindergarten Readiness – Presidents’ Day/Family Day

With Monday being Presidents’ Day in the US and Family Day in some parts of Canada, there are lots of opportunities for fun, learning, and even some kindergarten readiness. President’s Day is connected to the birthdays of Washington and Lincoln, both in February. Family Day is another kind of connection because it’s a day to … Continue reading Kindergarten Readiness – Presidents’ Day/Family Day