Developmental Milestones

Kindergarten Readiness – ABC’s: U is for Unique

Each child is unique and will have his or her own strengths and challenges when it comes to developing kindergarten readiness. There are some general developmental milestones that children will reach in their own time and at their own pace.
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On some recent Learn and Play with Mrs. A radio shows, I interviewed a music producer, a mathematics professor, an art therapist, a physical fitness coach, and a scientist. I asked each of them, if children needed to be born with a music, a math, a sports, an art, or a science gene. Or if we needed to enroll children in all these activities so they could experience them. The answer? No. While children will have gifts and talents, all of these experts talked about giving children two things: time and opportunity.

As children play they will explore how their bodies move, how shapes and sizes fit together, and what happens when they pour water from one container to another. They will sing and dance to music and create pictures and sculptures with art and other materials.

Time and opportunity are two aspects of play. Play needs time for a child to explore and create and a variety of opportunities. Often, even very young children will communicate to parents and caregivers what they enjoy most and is important to them. A play-of-the-day for today is just that, to play. What kinds of clues about a child’s uniqueness can we notice? What toys does a child choose? How does s/he play with them? What kind of reactions and questions are there? Most importantly, what kinds of time and opportunity would support each child’s development?

P.S. How do you catch a unique rabbit? A. You ‘neak up on it.
Q. How do catch a tame rabbit? A. Tame way.

Some Handy Ideas for Kindergarten Readiness

Each month I like to start a new topic of fun activities for encouraging kindergarten readiness and all kinds of early learning. After many years working with young children, a sense of play creeps into many blog posts. This time, it’s a play on the word ‘handy’, for ideas that are helpful and that use hands. wave-busYesterday’s post was the last one in a series of 10 on helping children who are starting preschool and kindergarten. Although some areas have already begun, the day after Labor Day still feels like the beginning of the school year. And one of the very last things that happens is that kids and parents wave goodbye to each other.

Waving goodbye is a developmental milestone for a baby in terms of communication. It is one of the earliest gestures that a baby learns to imitate and soon babies connect the gesture to the word bye. As children connect words and meanings they begin the process of using language. Teachers do not teach children to speak and use language. Parents and caregivers do that.

wave-babyEven if your child is off to preschool or kindergarten today, please remember that you are your child’s first teacher. Learning is not just the responsibility of the school. Instead of teachers taking it on, it’s more like another person has been added to the early learning team. Your child has begun a relationship with the teacher and so have you.

A wave can mean both goodbye and hello. As you wave goodbye to your child, in a way you are waving hello to your child’s teacher. My wish is a great year for you, your child and teacher, all together. And for those parents, caregivers and little ones with another few years, your turn is coming. In the meantime, there will be lots more handy ideas for learning and fun.

Can you lend a hand and send in your suggestions and comments?

Kindergarten Readiness Rocks! Developmental MileStones

For this last blog of the month on using rocks for all kinds of kindergarten readiness fun and learning, how about developmental milerocks, er..milestones?

While all children develop at their own rate and have their own unique strengths and challenges, they generally follow the same developmental path. Milestones are indicators along that path that can be used to evaluate a child’s growth and development. They are most helpful when they are used as a guide showing areas where children could use some support.

Here is a brief outline of some of these indicators for a kindergarten readiness developmental checklist. (For a more detailed version, fill in the box at the side –>) No matter the age of your child now, it’s helpful to have an idea of typical 5 year old development:

  • over-the-pondIn the area of self-help, most 5 year-olds are fairly independent and can take care of bathroom needs and separate from parents and caregivers for short periods of time.
  • Kids at this age speak in sentences and respond to basic requests. Most speech sounds have developed.
  • Socially, children enjoy playing and interacting with each other and are able to share.
  • Full of energy, youngsters at this age can hop, jump, run and will even occasionally slow down and walk.
  • At this age, children can listen attentively to a short story and sing a simple song. Basic knowledge includes saying the numbers from 1-10, counting out 5 things, recognizing objects that are the same and different and sorting items into groups.

Please remember that each child is unique. Although there are differences for all children, they follow a similar pattern of development and maturation. Checklists and other evaluations are meant as guidelines.

I hope you and your child have enjoyed this month’s posts of learning activities with rocks. Did you have a favorite one? By supporting children to maximize their learning, their path of stepping stones may turn into Olympic rings!

Kindergarten Readiness and College Readiness?

Listening to the radio on the way to school this morning, I heard the host interviewing a guest who helps secondary students get ready for college. While some of the advice included how to access financial assistance and how to apply to various institutions, there was also tips for the same areas as on a kindergarten readiness checklist! I could hardly wait … Continue reading Kindergarten Readiness and College Readiness?