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What Makes A Magical Childhood? Part 2: Imagination

Have you come across the article about a magical childhood by Bunmi Laditan? Making a childhood magical doesn’t require a magic wand, or that parents and caregivers be magicians—altho we often are. This is the second in a series of blog posts about ways to weave some spells for kids.

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Magic Needs Imagination:

Although it’s not listed as a factor in intelligence, imagination is a tremendously powerful tool of the mind. In the words of Carl Sagan, “Imagination will often carry us to worlds that never were, but without it we go nowhere.” Could you use a few tricks to help your child develop and use imagination? Here are some abracadabras:

  1.  Read books and tell stories–magic on every page.
  2. Change the endings of the characters. There’s a wonderful story about Goldilocks and the Three Dinosaurs by Mo Willems that want Goldilocks to stay so she can be lunch. Kids catch on to the humor and find the story very funny. You and your child can make up something similar with 3 of practically anything.
  3. Turn ordinary into extraordinary. For example, make up a conversation between a fork and spoon when unloading the dishwasher. When folding the clean laundry, slip a sock on your hand and have the sock tell where to put the clean clothes, like the fridge and other mixed up places. Put a sock on your child’s hand that tells the right way to do it.
  4. When riding on the bus, imagine if it goes someplace else like to the moon, or across the ocean.
  5.  At mealtimes, add a voice for the table.
  6. When it’s bathtime, maybe the tub can be the ocean.

Imagination is not something confined to childhood. It’s also a valuable skill in adulthood. Many companies require people with highly developed imaginations for new ideas, products, and solutions. Imaginative activities require little or no expense. They can be done anywhere, anytime, and with anything. Does imagination have a part in your child’s play?

What Makes Childhood Magical? Part 1: PLAY

PLAY Makes Childhood Magical

Recently, a popular article has been circulating written by Bunmi Laditan declaring “I’m Done Making My Kid’s Childhood Magical.” This mom states that she’s had it with themed birthdays, elaborate crafts, and contrived memories. She explores some of the things that made childhood magical for her.

After reading, I tried to remember what made magical childhood memories for me? Both my parents worked long hours and long days but we were also welcome to bring home friends at anytime, had a small corner of the basement as a play room, and had lots of time to run around outside. I can’t remember much of what the adults did for us, but I certainly recall the things I did: playing in the shed-turned-playhouse outside, a mud kitchen, dressing the cats, building forts from blankets and sticks, and giving temporary homes to assorted bugs and other critters. One of my favorite games was hide-and-seek. This was one of the few times when there was an advantage to being smaller than everyone else; I could squeeze into unlikely places. play makes childhood magical

My kids did some of these but instead of an old shed in the yard, they had a space under the deck. Living in a city limits some activities, but adds others. If there is a secret formula for a magical childhood, one of the special ingredients is PLAY. Time and and space to play is so important for children that it is enshrined in the UN Rights Of The Child. Play is how a child interacts with the world. Of your childhood memories, are the magical moments play activities? Is there time and space for your child to play today?

Why Do Children Love to Play Hide and Seek Games?

why children love to play hide and seekAt your house, is there a day that goes by without the little ones playing hide and seek in some way, shape, or form? Hide and seek might look like a game but there are some serious reasons why kids love to play; it helps kids with early learning and especially kindergarten readiness.

One of the big challenges for many kids is to separate from parents and caregivers. For some children, this isn’t an issue at all, but for others it’s a very big deal. Did you know that playing hide and seek can help?

Hide and seek is really a game about relationships. When kids go off to hide, they are going off on their own. They pick the hiding place and sometimes initiate the game without any prompting by parents and other caregivers. Often, they will announce it though by calling out,”I’m hiding, come find me,” just in case we didn’t get the message. In order to do this, they need to trust that we will look for them and will indeed come find them. Kids will check this over and over. None of us ever tires of being found or discovered or reunited.

There is also an element of control or power. So much of their lives, kids have to follow along with the adult timetables. Meals come at certain time, hungry or not. Kids can’t even sleep when they want, sometimes we need them to get up and get ready to go. By hiding, kids are asserting their control of a situation for a little while, with the security of the knowledge that the grownups will find them. In a sense, hiding Easter eggs is the same thing on a community and tradition scale.

No wonder, kids love to play this game, and variations of it, like hiding one shoe, or worse, the keys. Do you have a hide and seek story to share?

Build With Lego and Duplo and Build Knowledge

Of the many early childhood connections I’ve made, one of my favorites is with Jeff A. Johnson at Explorations Early Learning. Often, Jeff finds quotes about early learning and play to inspire us all and turns them into posters. This is one of them, and it seems to link up wonderfully with Lego and Duplo. … Continue reading Build With Lego and Duplo and Build Knowledge

Loose Parts Play with Lego and Duplo

Recently, there has been much discussion about play with loose parts and how it contributes to creativity, exploration, imagination, learning, and fun. Of course, all of those in turn support kindergarten readiness and important thinking skills and strategies. Loose parts can be anything, such as rocks, pine cones, sand, water, pieces of wood, crates, balls, … Continue reading Loose Parts Play with Lego and Duplo

Lego and Duplo: Building Concentration Skills

Young children seem to have amazing powers of concentration–when it comes to something they really want, but when it’s something we want, or they are not so keen on, concentration can be brief. However, concentration and focusing are skills that can be encouraged, practiced, and developed; they help with learning at any age and kindergarten … Continue reading Lego and Duplo: Building Concentration Skills

Playin’ and Payin’ It Forward: Cop Plays With Young Boy

Play is not just a tool for young children’s early learning and development, it is a powerful way to connect hearts and lives for people of any age. Just last week, a police officer noticed a boy outside playing with a basketball and practicing shooting hoops. The officer requested and received permission to take his … Continue reading Playin’ and Payin’ It Forward: Cop Plays With Young Boy

LEGO Play Encourages Creativity & Kindergarten Readiness

Kindergarten readiness and creativity are not opposites; creativity is an important strategy for learning and thinking for children of any age. The importance of creativity has recently been recognized in industry and business. In the words of Sir Ken Robinson, “Creativity has become the new literacy.” He strongly believes that we need to nurture the … Continue reading LEGO Play Encourages Creativity & Kindergarten Readiness